Aging

Aging

You stay the same through the ages, your love never changes!  There may be pain in the night, but joy comes in the morning.  These words rang out on Saturday night as we experienced the Newsboys “Roaring like a Lion Tour” Concert.  There were a few things I learned that night.  I’d like to share a couple with you if I may.

I learned that apparantly we are too old to go to concerts.  In the midst of music so loud our ribcages were vibrating,  my sweet husband fell asleep!  Who does that?  Who can do that!  He did, he has been so busy with work, home, support raising, that when he sat down he fell asleep!

I also learned that age is such a strange thing!  God never changes, he has been the same through the ages.  But we need to change, grow, mature.  But are we?  Can we?  How do we do that?  The only way we can grow closer to God, know His will for us, His plans for our futures is to communicate with Him.  Taking time to listen to Him.  Hear from His Word what He has for US.

I have always had a hard time with this.  In my life and thought process “I need to work, to do things”, in order to please Him.  Well, I have this wonderful friend, Sherrill, she has the gift of “just being”.  When you are with her you feel like you are the only other person in the world.  Teenagers can be setting trashcans on fire, car bombs can be going off in the parking lot, and pre-schoolers can be running amuck with sharp objects, and what is Sherrill doing?  She is actively engaged, listening, loving, praying, making that person feel that they are the only person that matters in the whole world.  Whereas, I would have to take the matches from the teenagers, call the police for the firebombs, and talk the pre-schoolers down-where is Sherrill?  She is sitting in the middle of this totally focused on the moment and the person she is engaged with!

I know God has made me very different from Sherrill, but I pray so often that He can help me be a little bit like her in the way that I don’t have to be constantly “doing”, that I can take time to quiet my mind and heart and truly HEAR from Him, and share that with His people.

So what is my point for today?  (besides the fact that I may need medication for ADD?)  We need to do sometimes, but we also need to BE!

Risk!

Risk!

John Eldredge, in his little book, Dare to Desire, says, “God has rigged the world so that it only works when we embrace risk as the theme of our lives…All attempts to find a safer life, to live by the expectations of others, just kills the soul in the end.  That’s not how we find life.”  Eldredge then challenges us to choose a path of eternal significance rather than over-analyzing and feeling the need to always take the most secure route.  He says, “Don’t ask HOW-that will cut your desire off at the knees.  HOW is never the right question.  HOW is a faithless question.  It means “unless I can see my way clearly I won’t venture forth.”  I have come to realize that is how I lived the first 40 years of my life.  I played it safe, I didn’t do anything unless it was safe.  Everything over-analyzed and secure.  I know what to anticipate tomorrow because it will be very similar to today.

God is shaking this up in me and I am finding it very freeing, yet scary!  I have hardly had to look at my calendar for years, because I know in my brain what is going on from one day to the next.  Dan is finding this quite annoying at this time of our lives, because I can not keep track of time.  I don’t know when we were where and when we will be somewhere else talking to people raising our support.

On October 4 through the 6 we were at the Steer Conference in Bismarck, North Dakota. This was a new experience for us as we had never heard of STEER before.  Art and Dorothy told us about this great organization.  While we were there we connected with farmers and ranchers who raise crops or cattle to support individual missionaries.  We also got to connect with many different missionaries from many different organizations.  What an encouragement and wonderful networking opportunity that was!  It was so cool to visit with retired pastors, as well as ranchers and farmers about missions and what God is doing out there in our world!  This gave us some great ideas and thoughts about networking with rancher and farmer friends and offering this as a way to support us in our quest to get to Nigeria.

My point for today is this, “If you play it safe, you truly miss out on His blessing for you.  At the end of your life do you want to think, “What if?”

Maturity

Maturity

“You shall stand up before the gray head and honor the face of an old man, and you shall fear your God: I am the LORD.         Leviticus Chapter 19 Verse 32 

As a young woman and mother I had the wonderful blessing of being mentored by many older women in our church.  I was about 25 years younger than the next youngest person in our church women’s group.  I had no idea at that time how very fortunate I was.  I got to learn from women who were missionaries, pastor’s wives, farmers, and so many others.  Strong women, stable women, Godly women.  This is part of my Godly heritage.  I am so thankful for that

Dan and I have spent the last week with Dan’s parents who are 87 and 90.  Elsie and Orville spent the week marking, organizing and getting things ready for another garage sale for us.  They spent a super busy week helping us.  They have done this 4 times this summer.  What a blessing that has been as we have been packing and sorting our belongings getting ready to move to Nigeria.

Two weeks ago we spent the weekend with the Minnesota Christian Campers.  We spent a wonderful weekend visiting and sharing the ministry of GECHAAN with them.  These wonderful people of God encouraged us, loved on us, and blessed us as we shared how God has been working in us through this last year or so.  99% of these people are retired and on the elderly side of life.

Last week we talked with our Senior Adult Ministry at our church.  These people are amazing!  We so enjoyed sharing how God had been working in us and where He is leading us.

Here is the thing.   What is our world going to be like when these people are no longer on this earth?  They give sacrificially, they pray unceasingly, and love their Lord and Savior in a way that amazes me.  These dear Saints know about missions.  They know their God and His plan for the world.  They know about sacrifice.  When I get to this stage in life, will I be able to say, “May all who come behind me find me faithful”?  I truly hope so.

My point for today is this:  What are you doing at the stage of life that you’re at to become a man or woman of God?  Do you have a plan?  Things to think about today.

Plans

Plans

Proverbs 16:9 tells us, “In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps.”

Last weekend Dan and I took a road trip to Oswego, Illinois to visit with Art and Dorothy and discuss GECHAAN and make plans for our futures.  We had a wonderful time dreaming and talking about the realities there in Nigeria right now and about the future and possibilities of many positive new things that are going on there.  While we were there, Dorothy called Vincent, the person in charge while they are in the States.  He told them that they boarded up the house and didn’t work for a couple of days because of the safety level right now.  That is a reality in Nigeria right now.  The unrest that a lot of the world is experiencing is affecting GECHAAN  and Gembu as well.

I thought of this verse in Proverbs 16:9, God knows what His plans are for GECHAAN, He is the one who has worked mightily there and done amazing things there.  We need to make sure that we are truly hearing His voice and listening to the wisdom that only He can give.

Today I ask that you pray for safety for Art and Dorothy as they go back to Nigeria, safety on the compound (they have started building our security wall )  we have about 5% of the funds raised to complete the security wall, this is a must-do.  Both Art and Dorothy and Dan and I have been working on raising funds for this along with some wonderful helpers here in the States.

Please also pray that Dan and I make the right connections with individuals and churches to share GECHAAN’s story with them and ask them to stand beside us.

My point for today is this: We have many plans, we need to work toward where we think God is leading, but we also need to listen so that we can hear his leading.  We need to hold our plans loosely in our hands so that we can truly do His work where He has planted us!

Genuine Love

Genuine Love

Mark 10:21-26 tells us “Looking at the man, Jesus felt genuine love for him.  “There is still one thing you haven’t done,” He told him.  “Go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in Heaven.  Then come, follow me.”  At this the man’s face fell, and he went away sad, for he had many possessions.  Jesus looked around and said to His disciples, “How hard it is for the rich to enter the Kingdom of God!”  This amazed them.  But Jesus said again, “Dear children, it is very hard to enter the Kingdom of God.  In fact, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the kingdom of God!”  The disciples were astounded.  “Then who in the world can be saved?” they asked.

This passage speaks to me today in a whole new way now that Dan and I are in the stage of life that we are currently in.  I used to think, “That would really stink to be that man”.  What do you say to Jesus when He tells you to get rid of all that you own and know and follow Him? “Um, Jesus, yeah, about that, I think I’d rather not, but thank you for the offer, I’ll see you around.”

When Dan and I were approached with the opportunity to go to GECHAAN and join Art and Dorothy there, we didn’t even consider what that meant.  Currently, I am starting to realize all of the many little details and changes that means.  I am sorting through all of the worldly possessions we have had for at least 30 years and deciding what can keep for at least 10-15 years in storage and we may need then and what we don’t need.  What we can sell, what we need to give to family members.  If you think about it, there are so few things that we TRULY need.  It boggles my brain that we have so much “STUFF”.  I truly used to pack my stuff in wherever I could fit it.  I liked my stuff, I took care of my stuff, I liked organizing my stuff and figured I would have it for my whole life.  Well, God has shown me a different plan in inviting us to join Him in His work in Nigeria.

We were asked if this was our “dream”, to move to Nigeria and work at a HIV/AIDS clinic, gotta say, “No, hadn’t occurred to me EVER”.  Who dreams of that?  I know some people do dream of moving off and changing their lives.  I have to say I have never been that sort of person.  I hate change, I don’t even move my furniture EVER.  If I have it right where I like it, that’s where it stays.  I don’t think I have changed anything in our house for about 10 years.  I have a very adverse reaction to change, it puts me out of total control, and I am not terribly comfortable with that. I like my predictable life.  I, in fact really enjoy it!

This morning driving to the coffee shop to get my Cold press, I passed the same lady that always walks her dog, the same guy with the too short shorts jogging, Greg, the seemingly homeless, mentally challenged man that walks down our street with a sign that says, “I heart Jesus of Nazareth”.  the same daycare provider taking her charges for a short walk to the park.  I love my town, I love my life, I hate change.

Why then would my husband of the last 30 years and I decide that at this time in our lives God was calling us to get rid of everything we know and move off to Nigeria as missionaries?  We have heard the call.  That is the only “sane” way I can explain it.  God has planted in our hearts the desire to serve Him and we really believe that He has a job for us all the way across the world.  What about you?  Are you listening?  What is God trying to tell you?

My point for today is this, if you’re not listening to God’s call, what are you listening to?  Make sure there is room in your life to hear His voice and recognize who it is that is calling you.